Here are the “rules of mating.” They are considered “rules” because many other people and myself studied (for many years) the various relationships of couples who were seemingly “meant to be together” and these are the steps they took or rules they followed in finding each other…
THE RULES OF MATING
1. You are working on yourself now and continually for the rest of your
life in whatever manner that allows you to better yourself (therapy,
religion, meditation, etc) and you do not let anybody interfere
with the work that you choose to do on yourself (including the person you
are mated to) because they are working on themselves now and continually for the rest of their life and you
are not allowed to interfere with the work they have chosen to do on themselves.
2. You have genuinely chosen (with both your head and your body or “all” of
you) that you are not going to be alone any longer, and that you are going
to be with another person…and at the same time, the person you are mated
to has made this same choice of not being alone.
3. You are completely available for the next new person to come along…in
other words, there are no possible choices of any other people from the past (I.e.
family members, siblings, ex-lovers, etc). You are absolutely available for
the next new person. It is a condition of “This and no longer That.”
A final observation but not a rule is…Many times, but not always, when you meet
your mate, one person chooses immediately and the other person resists choosing
back. This process could last anywhere from one to six months. Once the other
person does choose back, now both people have chosen, and the mating is now
complete. If the person who has not chosen back has still not chosen back
after about six months, the person who has already chosen and has been
waiting for the other to choose, has to give up or surrender and then look
for their next mating. There is never one person who you are mated to. You
could be mated to any of 1000 people in your area alone. The rule is that
the “first” person who you choose when you are in the condition of following
the rules of mating, and who then chooses back - well the mating is then
complete.
